My initial reaction was disbelief for I know how jolly and
kind the person was and I thought it does not make sense that after all the
hardships she was able to surpass when she was younger, she would be
surrendering now that she is far better than how she used to be. I tried to
remember her and look for signs if there were any that can point to her state
of mind in the last week. But I dismissed the thinking because I realized how
small a part of her life our interactions may be.
While I was becoming more curious of why she would kill
herself, I was having an indescribable feeling and it started to become so
familiar I attempted to distance myself from it. But soon I realized it was
always a part of me. Twelve years ago, before I turned 11, I was asking the
same question about my own father. He took his own life and left us with an
unfinished house, a car no one knows how to drive, a business drowning in debt and
a traumatic experience that will forever change our lives.
Suicide, for people who think about it, is the easiest
way out. But for me, it is a selfish and unkind thing to do. I won’t even get
started on the moral aspect of it. A former classmate whose family owns a
funerary once told me that when she sees dead bodies of people who committed
suicide, she can’t help but think of those who try hard to buy their lives
out from deadly diseases. She said those who consider suicide are nothing more than brainless, probably friendless, assholes.
I'm pretty sure people who consider doing the deed will try to rationalize that irrational act. There can be so many reasons as there can be so many ways to do it. But for me, it's only either that you value yourself too much you're too selfish you don't think of the people you will leave behind, or you don't value yourself at all, you think that those you will leave will be happier or better off when you're gone. In both cases, you most certainly are in bad mental shape and need psychiatric help.
For being sane and able to appreciate life despite its flaws, hardships and throes, I am grateful.
I'm pretty sure people who consider doing the deed will try to rationalize that irrational act. There can be so many reasons as there can be so many ways to do it. But for me, it's only either that you value yourself too much you're too selfish you don't think of the people you will leave behind, or you don't value yourself at all, you think that those you will leave will be happier or better off when you're gone. In both cases, you most certainly are in bad mental shape and need psychiatric help.
For being sane and able to appreciate life despite its flaws, hardships and throes, I am grateful.
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